In the present era where people are dealing with many relationships, work and self-care at the same time, it is difficult to be in good words with all. Either your or their schedule will be difficult for you to align with each other and when things do not seem possible, then adopt a vicious cycle of lying.
While you can be very reliable and honest for those people you keep closer in life, it cannot happen to others. Now, a test lawyer has revealed a word that can help you find out if you are lying.
Jefferson Fisher The diary of a CEO appeared in a recent episode and shared that Liers usually use a word that is a “dead cheap” for their deception. He also shared a complicated strategy to accept them.
Full word
Fisher shared that when people are trying to hide the truth, they often rely on full words like “never” or “always”. He invited host Steven to make a question for example: “Was you texting while driving that day?”
This Fisher replied, “No, I never read. Never read when I drive.” He explained the lie in this sentence, “Not notice I said a big word. I said ‘never’. The extreme limit is a dead cheap that they are usually not telling the truth. Every lesson when they drive at any time, still in your car. Never and forever. It is not always or ever. So it’s not a big.”
Repeat the question
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He shared another communication and speech pattern that make false performances. “Second, I really responded quickly. I didn’t breathe, think about it or really try to show you that I was trying to remember in time. I really reacted you immediately.”
He gradually emphasized the effectiveness of repeating the question again, such as, “You never read while driving?” Now, the trust of lies will decrease, so that the person will either get nervous or accept the truth. “So what they will do most often, they will say, ‘Okay, I mean sometimes I do’, because now they resist that word on ‘never’ no ‘.”
He suggested that now someone should give it out to the person. “When this happens, what you usually want to do gives them out. Now they have put themselves in a corner and they are looking for an out. And there is a way to do so, ‘If you were doing textting, it’s fine.”
Silence is a powerful tool
Most people are aware that silence can be a powerful tool, but do you know that it can help you find out if someone is lying to you? A moment of silence after talking can rethink them on their statements, often leading them to the truth, before you question them. Fisher said, “Silence is the ultimate slavery of false people because they make dialogue in their minds for you.”
Winning argument
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Finally, Fisher made some suggestions on ideal behavior during logic. He shared that when someone is waiting for you to “silence of five to seven seconds” instead of answering another insult, and then ask them to say again “because people asked to withdraw it.”
The next time you feel that you are being lied, use these effective tips by Fisher and see if they help you find out the truth.
